Lost and found

As the year comes to an end, we come to the end of a decade too. I’m sure that the year has been crazy for most of us. As much as we love the adventure and its adrenaline, we can be a little reluctant to enjoy the ride.  While chasing something new, we are constantly fearful of losing what we already have, and at the same time afraid of what we don’t.
But we have to come to terms with what's gone and leave it where we lost it. It is difficult, arduous too, but it's not impossible.
While we are leaving things where we lost them, we have to be mentally prepared that the new things that come in our lives won't be similar to what we have lost. There are two ways of looking at this, they won't be as bad as the things we lost, nor they would be as good as them. Comparing our present with our past will lead to nothing but complex situations. During this process, we have to make sure that we don't settle for mediocre because nothing can be worst than settling for something which we don't want only because we are too afraid to ask for more.
Often we stumble into things we want, while we ignore the things we have. This is the one big mistake we all do while we are on the hunt, let's try and avoid doing that.
The most important thing, it's not mandatory to have someone with you, not necessary at all, sometimes you can enjoy your own company, maybe your loneliness needs a little to rest, maybe your agony needs a rub on its back, maybe the sorrow needs a little tickle.  Nobody can do that except for you. Only you have the power to do so.
I am sure all this seems very flowery, fake, and fictitious, but fiction is nothing but a possibility we are yet to understand.
The books say, "what is meant to be will always find you", but at the same time be prepared for it might not come back to you. The heart wants what it wants, but the heart is not meant for thinking- your brain is. It might be practical and rude, but sometimes we need a little tough love to survive. 

All I want to tell my dear friends and readers is that you don't deserve those sleepless nights, tear-soaked pillows, lonely drinking nights, self cursing conclaves, and prejudice towards the world that is beautiful but seems dark to you because you wore black glasses.  I have learned this the hard way and I won't lie, it has been really difficult for me to cope up, but I am taking baby steps and its definitely making a difference

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You deserve all the happiness in the word, and you will have it, if not today, then tomorrow for sure.  Promise.